Meet the World on Your Own Terms

Eventually you have to meet the world on your own terms.

You have been trained and conditioned to somehow fit in. You have been told what the terms of the game are, been told what you have to be and do in order to belong to this big human family called society. Yeah, you, and me, and everyone else, have been told we have to do this, that or the other, to find our place, our niche, and that’s just the way it is, was, and will be.

The game was rigged from the time of your arrival in this dimension and you bought the whole ticket. We all did.

And how has it worked out?

Some have been successful at it. And it has to be said some folks are very very good at playing the BIG game as I call it.
BUT many are alienated and lost, confused and miserable about it all. Many creatives, artists, outsiders, many sensitives, indigos and introverts, have not fared very well at all. And they shoulder the guilt and self negating thoughts that it is their fault. But here are my observations for those specific people who can’t fit in, don’t want to fit in, but feel somehow wrong for it.

2abd27bef63ed8a9a5c92cab5c31e727You might not be designed to fit in!

Your very alienation, even depression, and your sensitivity etc could be the very signals your own soul is sending you telling you, nudging you, reminding you, that you have to meet this world on your own terms and do your own unique thing…no matter what other people, or society at large, may think, say or do.

Now, before I go any further, I am assuming here that you are a peaceful, creative, loving, compassionate and inherently kind person. I don’t want to encourage hostile, racist, misogynist people who hate others out onto the street.

But you! You have to get out there and meet the world on your own terms.
And as you get older, the incentive to do it, the urgency to do it, the pressure (from the inside) to do it, increases. Of course so does the fear, the anxiety, and the voice inside your head says,’ NO, you have too much to lose, you don’t know what you are doing, these feelings will pass, just stay in the box and shut up.’

But you know what. The impulse to offer your gift to others, the urge, if you have it, to be of greater purpose, the burning desire within you to break out and ‘do your thing,’ whatever that thing is, it DOES NOT GO AWAY.

It might live somewhere inside, in the dark shadows of your psyche, it might make you feel tired and ill, it might even make you depressed, but it will not ever go away. And upon your time to leave this sacred existence, you will ponder it. Sorry about that.

So I implore you, beseech you, invite you, cajole you, and challenge you, be bold, be daring, be true to your inner voice, no matter how crazy. Dare to step up and step out. You owe it to your self and to the world. Don’t be duped and suppressed any longer than is necessary.

You can create the rules of your own life.
You can be the one who decides the rules of your world.
It is up to you.
The world needs you.

Your Transformation Matters – Urgent Upgrade Time

I haven’t posted on here for some time, but with global events being so intense I felt the need to offer some words of support and inspiration to anyone who may be struggling under the ‘tsunami’ that is rolling toward us day by day.
And it is a tsunami, make no mistake.

We are under pressure, all of us. Those who are trying to consciously understand and meet what seems to be happening, and those who are not. It is the same pressure on both. And it is easy to throw judgment at those who are ‘unconscious’ but that is not the point at all.
We are human. We are a human body made of 7 billion individual selves.
Right now many of those selves are fighting each other like a cancer, or like an auto immune disease. And thats not just a metaphor.
It is the truth, because the world is a microcosm, and the whole is contained in the part.

vivir-bien1The point of emerging awareness is to know that, and act from that place with boundaries, compassion, love and gratitude.
The upgrade, brought to us by the evolutionary impulse, by the movement into the Age of Aquarius, is no small thing. It’s a radical shift in consciousness of the entire species, and possibly the whole of life itself.

It is a shift from the era of the individual to the era of collective consciousness, where the purpose of life is to serve the whole, like the cell in a body.

It is a shift from the era of lies, deceit and manipulation to the era of freedom and truth, transparency and authenticity.

It is the era of technological revolution and breakthrough, including the liberation of electricity from oil based, paid for, to alternative and free.

It is an era of the ‘brotherhood of man,’ where all become equal, all races and between the sexes. Inequality will be considered irrelevant because each will see themselves in each other. 

Of course right now it doesn’t seem like that at all! It seems to be the opposite. But the night is darkest just before dawn.

What can you do?

Keep the faith.
Stay focused on truth, loving kindness and authenticity.
Clear out your inner wardrobes – The more transparent and authentic you are the greater your contribution to the whole.
Become like Neo, make your enlightenment bulletproof.
Take the opportunity to inquire into your own sense of freedom. What is holding you back from being free right now? Is it something real or is it something to do with your past? Other people? Is it something you are ok with, or do you think it’s time to do some house cleaning?
Take the opportunity to look at your own division. Most of us have been trained to separation, and will inevitably view other people as ‘other.’ Most white people are inherently racist, even if its subtly. Or you may see women as inferior. It might be time to look at these tough areas of our lives.

Light-Being-MEDIt is time to dig deep into your inner resources and commit on a whole new level.
And it may take time. This global change is going to get more intense yet, and may become incredibly challenging as the dark stuff spirals out of control. We could see upheavals on substantial levels as institutions really begin to crumble, and that will trigger all our survival issues. What I mean is food, electricity, money, water, safety etc. It could get nasty.
I’m not being alarmist but we need to understand the changes are great. The future could be incredible. It could be incredibly good or could be incredibly bad. There are forces out there that do not want the global population to be free, to have free electricity and for us to share in equal brotherhood. They want us in fear and hate and perpetual war.
It is up to us to become the truth of what we want. 
If you want to see a loving world, BE LOVING NOW. Don’t wait for the world to become loving.
If you want to live in a world of freedom, BE FREE NOW, in whatever way you can. Free is a relative term, but to be free of mind manipulation is essential for each of us. Turn off the TV, stop buying newspapers and become a truth investigator.
Make the move to free energy, in whatever way you can.
Make healthy choices, go organic and eat more plant based.
Eliminate mass produced and chemical laden foods. Avoid those that are man made.
Become your own researcher and investigator.

What I am saying is live it now, don’t wait until the world catches up. It will only catch up when you live it. Thats a strange law but probably some weird quantum entanglement. Try it out. 
I’m always trying it out. I live as freely, compassionately, authentically and lovingly as I can. I’m not perfect and I fail often. But I do it anyway, because once tasted never forgotten. I used to live my life under the shroud of fear and shame, and it was hell. It was like wearing a mask all the time.
I can tell you now there is no mask. That is a huge relief and a great liberation.

So I am actively encouraging you to be braver, more foolish, to risk more, to become unafraid, to live more freely and wildly and to play your glorious part in our evolution to become a free flying butterfly.

Let me know how it goes.

Thanks for reading!

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That Monday Blog – C’mon Baby Light Your Fire.

monday-morningDo you get that Monday feeling? I really wonder how many people do?
I even think that people who work for themselves and are actually not even affected by the Monday – Friday work thing, they get it as well. I think it’s so etched into our cultural collective experience that we feel it, regardless of whether it’s actually us who feels it! I believe it’s such a thick, pea soup kind of collective feeling that we almost can’t help but feel it..

However, I have also seen that we can learn a lot about ourselves from the feelings we don’t like. And that Monday morning feeling is one of them. I am going to be bold here and say to you, if you are having that ‘Monday morning is such a drag, another week of putting up with this shit,’ and it’s followed later in the week by the ‘Thank God it’s Friday and I’m done with that shit, gonna really enjoy my weekend,’ then there is something wrong. Sorry.

aa6224c7f3ceed835c5deafba685c702Life is short. very short. What is life about? What is YOUR LIFE ABOUT?
Sometimes, in fact a lot of the time, we really need to ask that question and answer it truthfully. It is easy to let this one slip under the weight of survivalism, conditioning, fear, and of course the demands and expectations of society. Oh God spare us from the expectations of society!
Let me tell you another thing here I have noticed in my 57 years of planetary experience. It’s fiction! Nobody gives a shit, and those who do are so scared of stepping out, they live lives of quiet desperation, trying desperately to conform to some totally fabricated values that are an illusion.

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Vision, Purpose and PASSION – Serving Something Greater Than Just Us

Find a Vision That Serves.
One thing that pulls you through life’s challenges, shadows and even personal traumas, is to be pulled and pushed by a vision that is bigger than just your life. Thats one thing I really have noticed is the big difference.
What is it that gets you out of bed in the morning?
Is it sheer love and joy of life?
Is it your kids?
Is it that damn alarm clock?
Is it a vision that serves other people and the world?
What’s your motivation to get up, get dressed, and do it all again, day in day out, 365 days a year, year in year out?
Really, I wish I had considered this and been asked this when I was, young, in my 20’s, or in my 30’s. I started asking the question in my 40’s and its taken me years to answer it..

If I could offer any advice from my 57 years of hard won transformation it is this:

Find a Vision thats sets your heart and mind on fire.
No matter how crazy that vision may feel or seem, no matter how unreachable, hold it and nourish and cherish it, feed it and water it, chase it and live it.
If it is real and true, if it is not just self serving but in service to others, to humanity or nature, or the world, it will grow in mysterious and miraculous ways.

And there will be struggle and challenge, and you will have to fight for it, and meet your own demons, and demons that appear before you. But you are going to meet those anyway, with or without a vision.

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The Spirituality of Photography – Bringing New Insight

The Spirituality of Photography.The Spirituality of Photography.

I don’t know whether its talked about, or even thought about much, but the first thing I am noticing about having a decent camera that allows me to zoom in and out is how it is changing my perspective and awareness. It’s not about the photography it’s about the vision, the nature of seeing itself. It is about how we see things, not just what we see.

Seeing things with fresh eyes. The world itself becomes a dynamic and deeply Pool at Dawn interesting place. Take these pictures from this morning. I went to the communal open air swimming pool here in Costa Rica at 4.30am. It was dark, the stars were out and there was no one around.
I took my camera just in case I saw something, but what I wanted to take pictures of was the awesome night sky and the stars. I saw yet another shooting star, and gazed in wonder at the vastness and mystery of the universe. Breathtaking.
But then I saw the shallow part of the pool, and got the camera with the flash. I don’t usually like using flash but without
it I could get any exposure, and I’m not professional enough to know how to get a longer exposure so I just had a look with the flash, took a couple of pics and suddenly boom! I got really interested in the shapes and how the square of the mosaic tiles became fluid when the water sits on top. It changes their appearance totally, and the colours and reflections begin to take on a luminescence. Quite amazing.

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Creativity and Awareness – Awakening – Living beyond Fear

I have been coaching a client who is an artist. She is very talented. But she has been held back by her stuff. You know the kind of stuff, self negation, lack of confidence, low energy, disillusionment etc etc. We all get it, artist or not. I have had my fair share believe me.

Two weeks back we cracked the code and she had a huge realisation. She understood, not mentally or theoretically but viscerally, in her whole being, that her entire life, thought structure, belief system, relationship, everything, had been built on fear. Fear was the elephant in the room the whole time. She had thought it might be anger, or sadness, or shame, or guilt, or self worth etc etc, but they were all covering over the fear. And here is the thing:

Fear was covering over innocence and trust, the pure and natural state of her being.
She wrote a great blog about it. Here it is:

red_pill_blue_pill-copy3All I did was point to the door. She walked through it with some willingness. You see I know the door. I’m like Morpheus from the Matrix. I know what’s going on, and I know how we cover up our true nature with walls of protection that end up imprisoning us. And then we can’t find a way out. I know the way out. It’s not particularly spiritual, but it kind of is obviously. But I don’t get too involved in the language of spirituality, it’s a red herring. To me its just cutting away the crap, and the false, and the delusion, and getting to the roots and the core. It’s all about simple awareness.

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I had a Hunch you would read this – Intuition Explained

e3288974d12f8bd2f71d27f409a581b3Have you ever had a ‘hunch‘ that you should have done something, or not done something? Have you followed the hunch or have you ignored it?

If you ignored it, have you noticed that some time later when something happens you have found yourself saying, ‘Doh! I wish I had listened to my gut instinct, my hunch.”
And then you find yourself promising to pay greater attention to your intuition in the future, and then the same thing happens again?
I am prepared to bet that most of you reading this are nodding your heads.
That’s what I’m going to address here. It is important, in fact I think it’s such an important subject that it is fast becoming one of the major elements in my coaching program.
Last night I was inquiring into the nature of ‘the hunch’ with Amoda. It was born out of our intimate relationship and my own experiences, almost daily, of suddenly speaking what she is thinking, and also the times when we both have ignored our ‘hunch’ and how it always leads to wrong choices.
The hunch is obviously our intuition.

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Carpe Diem – Is It Your Moment to Work With Me?

I am offering some deals on my Coaching if they are booked quickly!

pic for thunderbolt wordpressIf you have been putting it off, thinking about it, sort of kind of not sure but drawn to work with me, now might be your moment. I am very approachable regarding my rates. I won’t give it away but I will make it possible for us to have a win/win where we both get our needs met.

One session or a series of sessions.


Possible areas of investigation:

Wellbeing, Illness, Emotional clearing and its affect on the body health. Changing thoughts and beliefs. Feeling lost and bewildered.

Relationship – I work excellently with woman, I am a conscious man in a conscious relationship, and it gives me great insight. I love working with women.

Passion, Creativity and Power – I am also a musician so I understand how vital it is to be able to access creativity and expression. Without this fulfillment its easy to become disillusioned.

Work, Money and the World – A big big area for many people. This is a deep dive into beliefs, conditioning and the imprint of parents and ancestors. Its powerful when we unravel and separate from some of the wounds we have inherited from others.

Spiritual Being – Who are you? I know who you are but do you?

I will help you to ask the right questions, and prepare you to hear the answers.

If any of this resonates get in touch here: Contact Me. We can arrange Skype sessions quickly. I can record the session so you will have a record of it and use it for for continual growth.

Carpe Diem – Life is Short, Live it with Passion and Urgency.

The Unfolding Adventure Rolls On

As some of you know, Amoda (my wife) and I are on something of an adventure.
See this blog post when we got to the US:
Wherever you go, there you are

We have dived into life, let go of so many things and taken a big gamble. On one hand we are groundless and rootless. On the other hand we are free and adaptable.
We taste life as very precious, and we value every experience. As Amoda said when we got here, it is up to us to cherish every day. It is a great spiritual, existential, teaching we are having.
We have learned not to look too far ahead but to live as present as possible. Yet we have to balance this with some planning. We live in different state of security from most people in the modern world. Our security comes, not from things or some sense of the future, but from a deep resting in our inner truth. It’s the only real security any of us have, everything else is temporary.

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